Unlocking Oneself Series 1

 Unlocking Oneself Series...

Dear Self,

I want to take a moment to reflect with honesty and compassion — something I’ve been needing for a long time. I've come to realize that guilt has been a quiet force holding me back. Not guilty for doing something wrong, but guilt for wanting more… for myself.

Whenever I’ve thought about taking a step forward in my personal or professional growth — investing time in a course, saying no to an extra responsibility, setting a boundary, or even simply resting — I’ve felt that inner tug. The guilt of not being as available to my family, of not being the “go-to” person at work, or of not showing up the way my friends expect me to. I’ve felt selfish for putting myself first, as if choosing growth meant I was choosing to abandon or disappoint the people I care about.

But here’s what I now understand: growth is not abandonment. Choosing myself doesn't mean I’m leaving others behind — it means I’m choosing to become better for them, too.

My development isn’t a threat to anyone’s happiness — in fact, it’s a contribution. When I grow, I become more grounded, more capable, more present. A better listener. A better contributor. A better guide. A better friend, partner, colleague, and family member.

So today, I reaffirm this: my growth serves everyone. The version of me that evolves is one that lifts others with clarity, kindness, and strength. I do not need to shrink to make others comfortable. I can rise and bring others with me.

From now on, I will remind myself that guilt is not my compass. Growth is. And I will walk forward with love — not only for others, but for myself, too.

With belief in who I’m becoming,

It's Me

Dr. Mohite Mentoring 

International Certified Business Coach/Counsellor/Mentor 

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